Men frequently whine about what odd and complicated creatures women are. The whole women are from Venus and men are from Mars spiel justifies their woefully inadequate love lives. Women are hard to put a finger on, according to many single men.
It isn't all hopeless though. Dating doesn't have to be so rigorous and strained as some people make it out to be. Women aren't so mysterious. Just stick to these guidelines and the first date could end up being the start of something very special.
The perfect first date should be exciting. It should be fun and flirtatious and light hearted. Don't make it out to be more than it really is. Taking that in account, know that grabbing a mocha at Starbuck's really doesn't cut it. Going on a date means you fetch your date at her place and take her out for dinner or a show.
The thoughtful gentleman always has something planned in advance. A first date isn't something you can plan on the fly. You usually need to make reservations or purchase tickets beforehand. It really needn't be too fancy, but you do need a plan.
If you want your lady to think highly of you, remember that actions speak louder than words. Don't take your date to your favorite bar--this isn't guys night out. Don't go to some ridiculously casual joint either. Show your date you value her. So get creative or be prepared to spend some time on making preparations or simply be prepared to dish out a little bit of cash.
The confirmation call is vital. Remember to call your date and confirm that you will come pick her up on Friday at 8. Do not keep your lady waiting. This will cause unnecessary fretting and stress. A phone call is really easy to make and it's good manners.
Don't be late. Punctuality is good form. Being late shows your date that you don't value her time. Besides if you are late you're already jeopardizing your date. It simply looks bad and your date won't be happy. If you know you're going to be late, again, pick up the phone as soon as you can.
Compliments are a great way to win your lady's heart--in moderation however. If you are too profuse, you will come off as disingenuous or ingratiating. It never hurts to tell your date that she looks like a million bucks. She'll appreciate it.
Women spend a lot of time and a fair amount of cash in preparing for a date. They go to their hair dresser's and get manicures. Grooming is expensive. Pick up the check, your date has already shelled out a small fortune just to be there.
If you find that the date isn't so great, be kind yet firm. Say something along the lines of, thanks for coming, it was nice meeting you. Don't say you'll call when you know you won't.
If the date goes well, let her know you had a good time. Be courteous and gentlemanly.
It isn't all hopeless though. Dating doesn't have to be so rigorous and strained as some people make it out to be. Women aren't so mysterious. Just stick to these guidelines and the first date could end up being the start of something very special.
The perfect first date should be exciting. It should be fun and flirtatious and light hearted. Don't make it out to be more than it really is. Taking that in account, know that grabbing a mocha at Starbuck's really doesn't cut it. Going on a date means you fetch your date at her place and take her out for dinner or a show.
The thoughtful gentleman always has something planned in advance. A first date isn't something you can plan on the fly. You usually need to make reservations or purchase tickets beforehand. It really needn't be too fancy, but you do need a plan.
If you want your lady to think highly of you, remember that actions speak louder than words. Don't take your date to your favorite bar--this isn't guys night out. Don't go to some ridiculously casual joint either. Show your date you value her. So get creative or be prepared to spend some time on making preparations or simply be prepared to dish out a little bit of cash.
The confirmation call is vital. Remember to call your date and confirm that you will come pick her up on Friday at 8. Do not keep your lady waiting. This will cause unnecessary fretting and stress. A phone call is really easy to make and it's good manners.
Don't be late. Punctuality is good form. Being late shows your date that you don't value her time. Besides if you are late you're already jeopardizing your date. It simply looks bad and your date won't be happy. If you know you're going to be late, again, pick up the phone as soon as you can.
Compliments are a great way to win your lady's heart--in moderation however. If you are too profuse, you will come off as disingenuous or ingratiating. It never hurts to tell your date that she looks like a million bucks. She'll appreciate it.
Women spend a lot of time and a fair amount of cash in preparing for a date. They go to their hair dresser's and get manicures. Grooming is expensive. Pick up the check, your date has already shelled out a small fortune just to be there.
If you find that the date isn't so great, be kind yet firm. Say something along the lines of, thanks for coming, it was nice meeting you. Don't say you'll call when you know you won't.
If the date goes well, let her know you had a good time. Be courteous and gentlemanly.
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